Chunjiao vs Zhiming

Chunjiao and Zhiming have been living together for more than a decade, and they may not remember clearly why they walked together in the first place, probably because their family backgrounds are similar. Chunjiao has parents and younger brothers. Her father had left the family many years ago and had not fulfilled his father's responsibilities. The burden fell on her mother.

The relationship between Chunjiao and her father is very estranged, and she sees each other once or twice a year. Zhiming has not been in contact with his parents for many years. He does not want to talk in detail. It seems that his parents are partial to his older brother. Zhiming left in a rage. In recent years, with the help of Chunjiao, he has finally contacted, but there is always a little estrangement.

Probably it is the kind of relationship that is out of date for WhatsApp greetings. Chunjiao and Zhiming actually love each other very much, but there are a lot of frictions when they get along, and they will always break up in the end.

I used the system to explore the problem. In the family tree, I found that Chunjiao’s grandfather and his clan had inherited the energy of "uncompromising", "dominant", "worthless" and "impatient" to Chunjiao, and She finds "mission", "moral concept" and ""progress_" within her values.

On the other hand, Zhiming committed suicide in his previous life, reflecting his low ""self-worth"" and a tendency to ""self-punish"". The above finding of their respective personality traits and energy states all reflected that they had a lot of contradictions and awkwardness during their relationship.

They talked about trivial matters and complained to each other, but Chunjiao's sense of mission made her feel that she wanted to save Zhiming. It turned out that she felt that Zhiming was self. The value is low and there are many contradictions in interpersonal relationships. She feels that she has a responsibility to save Zhiming.

In addition, based on moral concepts, she believes that no matter what the relationship is, she will never leave Zhiming. From the beginning to the end, he hopes that the two will work together to make progress together. "Chunjiao's awareness is relatively high. In the course, she realized that "live in harmony with herself"is only 55 percent, and there is still a lot of room for improvement, such as "self-punishment", "self-limiting" and "powerlessness" Wait, she needs to face up to and transform these energies in order to have a higher vision to examine the crux of the relationship with Zhiming. "We often hear the "law of attraction".

In fact, energies of the same frequency attract each other, meaning that they have a certain amount of similar energy to attract people with the same energy. When a prying occurs, it is necessary to check what energy the two are carrying at the same time, which leads to a dispute. After using the system to transform, you can calm down again, let go of obsessions and talk, try to send love messages, and repair relationships. In many cases, the gas cannot be swallowed because the energy of "self-punishment" has not been transformed, and it has failed to forgive oneself and the other party."

The pursuit of harmonious coexistence must first start with oneself.

Students studying the system, if they have similar situations as above, can explore and transform according to the following intentions Why did it happen? Percentage of myself living in harmony ? Percentage of myself living in harmony ? What energy am I carrying?

What energy does he carry _? "Transforming relationship among the "no compromise" energy , so everyone calm surface of and communication."