Not allowed to be "wrong"?

Classmate Amenda’s son is 22 years old. She complained that his son was a rebellious young man who was studying accounting. She had no plans to study and had poor grades. She asked him if he wanted to transfer to another university or another school. He did not respond and refused to communicate. 

I use the system to explore, Amenda's energy to "live in harmony"with herself is only 65 percent, and the "misunderstanding" between Amenda and her son is 32 percent. I use the system to explore, Amenda's energy to"live in harmony""with herself is only 65 percent, and the "misunderstanding" between Amenda and her son is 32 percent. I had an idea, and asked Amenda: "Your life, including your parents, husband, son, work, finances, and all trivial matters must be planned properly, according to the book, no mistakes .

She stayed and did not respond for a long time. I used the system to explore again and found "insecurity" and "habits to be responsible for others.These energies, like DNA, originate from her mother-in-law and grandfather's clan, and also affect her family and work through her vision. And the outside world, which also includes the relationship with the son.

According to the system data, she still has some knots unresolved. I found "the pain of separation" and "the pain of the death of relatives and friends". It turns out that her mother has been dead for many years, and she still sheds tears every time she thinks about it. I feel that my filial piety has not been fulfilled, and the mother's expectations of her have not been fulfilled.

She turned the above-mentioned dissatisfaction that happened to her into motivation, and set the highest goal for her 360-degree life, striving for perfection. At the same time, she also projected her dissatisfaction on her son.

Whether it is "caring" or "governance", there will be different interpretations under different energies. Amenda needs to improve the relationship with her son, so she needs to transform the energy state. Many times in life, we learn and grow from the so-called "mistakes". Through review and adjustment, we can improve our "awareness" and realize that the so-called "mistakes" can be a precious gift.