"Procrastination" triggers a breakup crisis

"Classmate Sandy recently was planning to break up with her boyfriend. She revealed to me that her boyfriend felt that she was often absent-minded, and that she did not do everything she promised to do. Her boyfriend suspected that she was dating other boys, so she took the initiative to break up and make her Very upset_. In fact, Sandy loves her boyfriend very much.

I use the system to discuss and list the following information:- In the chart# I clearly express myself , Sandy can live in harmony with myself only 8%!!! "In the chart #I am responsible for my own life , and find "understanding the essence of things", "security to knock at the door", "sorrows of separation", "suffers of the death of relatives and friends"and "inferiority and arrogance". "In the chart #Negative Feelings , find "Hate yourself ". These hidden feelings will affect the order and efficiency of her dealing with large and small affairs in daily life. Some things may be important and should be dealt with immediately, but she subconsciously does not want to face it, causing procrastination and misunderstanding.

In the chart# Character relationship and challenge_ , find "values-justice/efficacy/equality_", "always together", "always yield to oneself", "save others_", "_better than someone/something" ,"separate". I found the challenges that she and her boyfriend had to face in the system. One wanted to "be together forever", and the other wanted to "break up" when there was a problem in the relationship. Each had persistence and caused conflicts. "In the chart# Life Themes and Challenges , find "career", "love", "sexual relationship", "social life" and "self relationship_".

Sandy's procrastination affects every aspect of her life.Sandy ’s procrastination can be found through the system, the right medicine can be prescribed, and the key positions can be transformed layer by layer to improve awareness and improve procrastination habits. "Finally, Sandy in the chart# How to change my life , find "keep awareness", "believe in yourself", "forgive yourself", "change the script , "change life attitude", "stop shirking responsibility", "establish New habits", "Step by step", "Express love_"."She understands that the "bad" traits in her personality can actually be changed.